No, You Are Not Entitled To Get Respect

No, You Are Not Entitled To Get Respect

I had always struggled to understand what is respect. There is a visceral understanding however I would never be able to put my finger to it. I think I am getting closer to understanding this need. The lightbulb lit for me when I got in touch with...

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Biology of Contempt and Shame

Biology of Contempt and Shame

Scene 1 Two pigeons are fighting with each other in my gallery. I don’t know why. The stronger pigeon came and beat the weaker one on the back of his head with it’s sharp beak. The beak left small marks on the weaker one’s head. The other...

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Contempt Is Victim’s Best Friend!

Contempt Is Victim’s Best Friend!

I was very sad to read that Bill and Melinda Gates decided to end their 27 year old marriage. It takes so much time and effort to build relationships and yet many people feel more comfortable ending it. While I am not too pro on marriages or...

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A Sound Decision Making Process

A Sound Decision Making Process

In my last blog, I deliberated on the need for a decision making process. It is immensely valuable. Now that it is out of the way, we focus our energy on crafting a personal decision making process. Following are some points personal to my process...

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Why do you need a decision making process?

Why do you need a decision making process?

We live in a world where decisions are directly tied to outcomes! Internet is filled with quick tips and How to on how successful people (You know who I am talking about! Elon, Priyanka, Obama, Oprah and all those…Ahm!) make decisions or their...

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Philosophy of Decision making

Philosophy of Decision making

While making decisions, have you ever thought, “I am at the cross road”, “I am not sure which direction to take”, “I am not sure if I should take the road less travelled or the safe road” or “I am in a dilemma” I think all of these are ways of...

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Values, Morals and Contempt

Values, Morals and Contempt

What is the difference between Value Judgements and Moral Judgements? What are values and what are morals? Values are strategies, steps we take to meet our needs. There can be infinite ways to fulfill our needs. The ones that we identify with...

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A journey from the bottom of the well

A journey from the bottom of the well

A family of tortoises is inhibiting a deep well. All their requirements are fulfilled inside. They have never bothered to come out. Sometimes when they tried, they failed to cross the overwhelming wall. When they look up all they can see is a...

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Empathy and Connections

Empathy and Connections

In my last blog on Connections and relationships, I mentioned how life exists only in connections. Connections are also about being in the moment. In this blog, I am exploring these connections further and how do they come alive? Empathy is the...

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